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6 Tips for Navigating the Holidays

Crystal Villegas

Crystal Villegas M.A., LCPC

Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor

The holidays are approaching once again.  This can mean a variety of things to people.  Some people may feel excitement and joy at the thought celebrating and spending time with family members.  They may love the idea of decorating their homes, watching those holiday movie classics, and baking holiday treats.

Others might feel anxiousness, stress, or loneliness; especially if they either have no family to celebrate with or find that their family members cause them stress.  They may find it overwhelming going from home to home, and spending money on gifts.  If you find yourself in the second group, just know that you are not alone.  It is not uncommon for people to seek counseling during the holidays to process some of these thoughts and feelings.  To help navigate the season, here are 6 tips to consider.

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Rethinking New Years Resolutions

Lauren Hartford

Lauren Hartford M.A., LCPC, ALMFT

Ah, we have all been here before. As the current year comes to an end and the New Year approaches, we become inundated with thoughts, conversations, media, and advertisements on New Year’s Resolutions.

“I want to lose weight and eat better!”
“I want to go to the gym every day and get fit!”
“I want to save more money.”
“I want to be happier.”

Often, we have great intentions when setting a New Year’s resolution. It’s aligned with our values and needs, and we want to show up for ourselves and others to be better. So why do New Year’s resolutions not work in the long run?

Studies have shown that New Year’s resolutions often don’t make it past February for a number of reasons. One simple reason is Continue reading “Rethinking New Years Resolutions”

The Changing Family During the Holidays

Katie Lukesmeyer, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Katie Lukensmeyer MSW, LCSW, CCTP 
Licensed Clinical Social Worker

“Happy Holidays!” The phrase we’re hearing more frequently as we head into this November. Many are filled with happiness and joy while others are feeling dreadful and sad. It is around this time of year when many clients come to session speaking of their distaste for the holidays and saying things like, “I can’t wait for the holidays to be over.” A time for togetherness, family, and joy can quickly begin to feel like a thousand pound weight when celebrations “look differently this year.”

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The 5 aspects of Emotional Intelligence

Alexus Lee

Alexus Lee, M.A., LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

 

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to recognize, interpret and regulate your own emotions as well as understanding other’s emotions. Emotional intelligence increases personal well being and interpersonal relationships. In fact, its importance lies in the communal nature of humans and our natural drive for connection. Emotions have a way of bringing people together and creating harmful disconnects if misused and abused. This post will discuss the 5 aspects of emotional intelligence and ways to improve your own EQ.

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Rethinking Your New Years Resolution

Lauren Hartford
Lauren Hartford M.A., LPC, ALMFT

Learn More about Lauren here and check out her videos

Ah, we have all been here before. As the current year comes to an end and the New Year approaches, we become inundated with thoughts, conversations, media, and advertisements on New Year’s Resolutions.

“I want to lose weight and eat better!”
“I want to go to the gym every day and get fit!”
“I want to save more money.”
“I want to be happier.”

Often, we have great intentions when setting a New Year’s resolution. It’s aligned with our values and needs, and we want to show up for ourselves and others to be better. So why do New Year’s resolutions not work in the long run?

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Night Terrors & Sleep Paralysis

Alexus Lee

Alexus Lee M.A., LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

Earlier this fall many of us celebrated Halloween! Many refer to the days leading up to Halloween as “Spooky Season”. To celebrate, people stay up late to watch their favorite scary movies or they may visit haunted houses. This can have detrimental effects on their sleeping. Night terrors and sleep paralysis are common sleep disturbances. While these sleep disturbances are not limited to “Spooky Season” alone, they can be heightened during this time.

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