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The 5 aspects of Emotional Intelligence

Alexus Lee, M.A., LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

 

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to recognize, interpret and regulate your own emotions as well as understanding other’s emotions. Emotional intelligence increases personal well being and interpersonal relationships. In fact, its importance lies in the communal nature of humans and our natural drive for connection. Emotions have a way of bringing people together and creating harmful disconnects if misused and abused. This post will discuss the 5 aspects of emotional intelligence and ways to improve your own EQ.

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Why can’t I just “chill” like everybody else?

Nanette Thomas Shepardson, M.A., LPC, CADC

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Why can’t I just “chill” like everybody else? Why am I always so anxious or so exhausted and
depressed that I can’t function well?  Your nervous system may be struggling to keep up with the new reality of existing in our
present-day world.

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Rethinking Your New Years Resolution


Lauren Hartford M.A., LPC, ALMFT

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Ah, we have all been here before. As the current year comes to an end and the New Year approaches, we become inundated with thoughts, conversations, media, and advertisements on New Year’s Resolutions.

“I want to lose weight and eat better!”
“I want to go to the gym every day and get fit!”
“I want to save more money.”
“I want to be happier.”

Often, we have great intentions when setting a New Year’s resolution. It’s aligned with our values and needs, and we want to show up for ourselves and others to be better. So why do New Year’s resolutions not work in the long run?

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Night Terrors & Sleep Paralysis

Alexus Lee M.A., LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

Earlier this fall many of us celebrated Halloween! Many refer to the days leading up to Halloween as “Spooky Season”. To celebrate, people stay up late to watch their favorite scary movies or they may visit haunted houses. This can have detrimental effects on their sleeping. Night terrors and sleep paralysis are common sleep disturbances. While these sleep disturbances are not limited to “Spooky Season” alone, they can be heightened during this time.

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How to Approach the Holidays

Yasmeen Ismail M.A., LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

The holidays are often associated with a sense of cheer, joy, and festivity.  For many, it is a time to gather with loved ones and spend quality time with one another. However, for others, the holidays can feel overwhelming, stressful, or even isolating. The pressure to meet expectations can lead to feelings of anxiety, sadness, or exhaustion. If you find yourself drained by the holidays, you are not alone. Here are 5 ways to help you approach the holiday season with peace and self-compassion.
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What is Internal Family Systems?

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an evidence-based therapeutic technique that abstractly conceptualizes one’s inner psyche into different parts. Just like a family unit, these inner parts all communicate and work together to protect and defend one another, but sometimes the methods of protection are not as helpful as we would prefer.

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