Licenced Clinical Professional Counselor
The question comes up often: “What do I do if I feel my relationship can benefit from couple’s counseling but my partner refuses to go?” What a difficult position to be in when one person strongly sees how couple’s counseling can help, while the other refuses to entertain the idea.
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Ricardo José Infanzón MSW, LSW
Anger is a natural emotion
Anger is a natural emotion, but it’s rarely the first one we feel. Typically it’s secondary. Most of the time, it’s a reaction to
something deeper — often hurt, fear, or feeling threatened in some way.
We may feel anger when we feel rejected, misunderstood, threatened, overwhelmed, or
disappointed. In those moments, anger can feel easier to express than vulnerability. Continue reading “Understanding Anger: What’s Beneath It?”
Normalizing autism in therapy starts with a shift in perspective: autism is not a problem to be fixed, but a neurodevelopmental difference to be understood and supported. When therapists frame autism as a valid way of experiencing the world, clients are more likely to feel safe, respected, and open. This approach moves therapy away from
The first 90 days of sobriety are the most fragile, and potentially the most transformative, phase of recovery from alcohol or other substances. This period demands a structured, multi-dimensional approach that addresses physical withdrawal, emotional volatility, environmental triggers, social reconstruction, and long-term planning. The following article details evidence-based protocols you can apply from the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), and peer-reviewed outcome studies into five key sections:
Preparation & Detox, Weeks 1–4: Stabilization, Weeks 5–8: Habit Re-Engineering, Weeks 9–12: Identity Integration, and Conclusion with Actionable Takeaways.
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Winter break often disrupts daily routines that help regulate mood, sleep, and stress, making it a high-risk period for increased anxiety, depressive symptoms, and emotional dysregulation. Reduced daylight, irregular sleep schedules, social isolation, and increased family or financial pressures can all contribute to worsening mental health. Individuals with pre-existing mood, anxiety, or trauma-related disorders may be particularly vulnerable during this time.
Maintaining structure is one of the most effective protective strategies. Consistent sleep and wake times, scheduled physical activity, and regular meals help stabilize the nervous system and circadian rhythm. Daily exposure to natural light, even on overcast days, supports serotonin regulation and reduces seasonal affective symptoms. Limiting alcohol use and keeping screen time boundaries are also clinically supported interventions for mood stability.
Finally, proactive emotional care is essential. This includes continuing therapy when possible, using evidence-based coping skills such as behavioral activation, diaphragmatic breathing, and cognitive reframing, and maintaining intentional social connection. Individuals should seek professional support if they experience persistent low mood, panic symptoms, suicidal ideation, or functional decline. Early intervention during the winter break can significantly reduce symptom severity and improve overall psychological resilience.
The holidays are approaching once again. This can mean a variety of things to people. Some people may feel excitement and joy at the thought celebrating and spending time with family members. They may love the idea of decorating their homes, watching those holiday movie classics, and baking holiday treats.
Others might feel anxiousness, stress, or loneliness; especially if they either have no family to celebrate with or find that their family members cause them stress. They may find it overwhelming going from home to home, and spending money on gifts. If you find yourself in the second group, just know that you are not alone. It is not uncommon for people to seek counseling during the holidays to process some of these thoughts and feelings. To help navigate the season, here are 6 tips to consider.
Ah, we have all been here before. As the current year comes to an end and the New Year approaches, we become inundated with thoughts, conversations, media, and advertisements on New Year’s Resolutions.
“I want to lose weight and eat better!”
“I want to go to the gym every day and get fit!”
“I want to save more money.”
“I want to be happier.”
Often, we have great intentions when setting a New Year’s resolution. It’s aligned with our values and needs, and we want to show up for ourselves and others to be better. So why do New Year’s resolutions not work in the long run?
Studies have shown that New Year’s resolutions often don’t make it past February for a number of reasons. One simple reason is Continue reading “Rethinking New Years Resolutions”
“Happy Holidays!” The phrase we’re hearing more frequently as we head into this November. Many are filled with happiness and joy while others are feeling dreadful and sad. It is around this time of year when many clients come to session speaking of their distaste for the holidays and saying things like, “I can’t wait for the holidays to be over.” A time for togetherness, family, and joy can quickly begin to feel like a thousand pound weight when celebrations “look differently this year.”
Licensed Professional Counselor
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to recognize, interpret and regulate your own emotions as well as understanding other’s emotions. Emotional intelligence increases personal well being and interpersonal relationships. In fact, its importance lies in the communal nature of humans and our natural drive for connection. Emotions have a way of bringing people together and creating harmful disconnects if misused and abused. This post will discuss the 5 aspects of emotional intelligence and ways to improve your own EQ.
Lauren Hartford, LCPC, ALMFT, NCC
As the days grow shorter and sunlight becomes scarce, many of us start to feel a little off. It’s
common to experience a dip in mood during the colder months, but for some, these feelings go
beyond a seasonal slump and may signal a more serious condition known as Seasonal
Affective Disorder (SAD).